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I'm not gonna list down the few points that hit me but come to think of it, does any of the 6 points apply to you? Are you feeling guilty and are going to do something about it?
Couples that come a long way will start finding themselves being complacent/dependent on each other. What I mean is that we've grown used to each other that, we often neglect our partner. We became unappreciative of what they did for us and started to take them for granted, believing that they will always be there for us.
However, if any of the signs started to appear, it will be best for us to pause for awhile and start thinking. Start thinking about what we really want from each other or what can we become in the future. Are we going to see ourselves as a married couple or just two souls that just wanted to be physically committed because of the years-long relationship?
Change. Start by changing ourselves, if we really want to work things out. It will definitely be beneficial for us and to the people around us. Of course, we don't change to compromise the other, rather, start changing for a better personality so that we can feel good about ourselves. We have to stop us to depend on other people's judgement and start thinking for ourselves. Afterall, it all depends on us to live our life to the fullest.
But, who will really start to do something unless some big crisis strikes us?
Life's complicated. :/